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  Please Oh! Is there anything wrong to date a friend's ex. The thing is they were in a relationship for a while, the guy was serious about settling down but things didn't really work out cos my friend wanted to take things slow and d guy was bent on getting married soon. So, they eventually broke up and the guy asked me out. I t was a mutual agreement between them, she isn't ready for marriage, and she has other long term goals. He feels he is overdue for marriage but she is adamant that it aren't happening anytime soon.  

I came across this topic on a social media forum and I kept wondering, Can a man be kept? Well, back in the days, the secret to keeping a man was through his stomach, but, this new generation of ours, hunmm, food can't keep your man o! Don't say I didnt warn you oooooh!!! My logic is this, if a man can be tied down by food, why do married men with a good wife who can cook , do house-chores etc. still go out to cheat? Or why will a guy with a lovely working class babe still dump her for a Calabar babe. (Abeg no harm to my Nigerian Calabar babes dem o, but una too try) Calabar babes can turn an innocent Guy

When it comes to relationships and marriage, its a little bit hard to handle. A lot of women complain about a particular trait in men, called Jealousy .